Guys can be somewhat uneasy at first when they meet a woman.It varies from guy to guy (and also depends on how many women he’s dated), but sometimes it takes a bright blinking neon sign in order for a guy to know that a woman likes him.As guys get more experienced with women, they generally know that their best bet is to assume the woman is interested in them and act accordingly (respectfully, of course).
Meanwhile, if the woman is guarded, playing hard-to-get or just not a very expressive type of person, the guy will feel like “she’s not that into him”.
I mean, it is possible that these guys don’t want to hurt your feelings and so they say they’ll go on another date, but from what you described it does sound a little odd to have 3 different guys do virtually the same thing.
At the same time, there’s a possibility that you could be coming across too eager.
I’ve gone out with three different guys in the past month.
With all of these guys, we talk and have a good time for a few hours over coffee.
He asks me out for a second date, and takes down my phone number.
He even talks specifics for the next date (what day, what we might do).
None of these guys actually call me to schedule the next date. I can see this happening maybe once, but three times?
…and what is the rationale behind asking a girl out and then never calling?