I was a little confused too because I never in a million years would have guessed that he would be involved in anything like this.He is so nice, and a total gentleman, which is something I really liked about him.
But then I began to wonder if I should at least ask him about it before writing him off.
I know in high school he dated a girl that was a sophomore when he was a senior, and I know there have been situations where the girl's parents didn't like her dating someone older and in order to end the relationship tried to get the guy in trouble for engaging in sexual acts with a minor when he is an adult, which would fall under the category of sexual assault because minors are considered unable to consent.
Another thing, I'm pretty sure he was only charged with sexual assault, not convicted, because the date of his arrest was less than 6 months ago and he's not in jail or anything, he is still attending college (which is in a different state than his hometown, where he was arrested).
This question is from a Group Therapy post in our Très Sugar Community. I know it's common for people in their mid-20's and older to Google dates to find out more about them, but honestly this never occurred to me before.
We've gone on a few dates, and he has come over to my house a few times to hang out with me and my friends. He is nice, funny, caring, and I like spending time with him.
I've searched myself before just to see what would come up and nothing connected to me did, and same with all my friends, and I figured that since we were in college we hadn't really established ourselves enough for anything to come up in a search.
But yesterday, I randomly decided to Google his name and was shocked at what I found... At first I wasn't totally surprised because he told me he had gotten in trouble a few years ago for consuming alcohol as a minor so I thought that's what it had to do with.
I clicked on the link, and it showed a picture of his mugshot, which at first I didn't even think looked like him.
But the name was exactly the same(including middle), and the birth date was exactly the same so I figured it was him.